So, if you’re not getting any results with approaching women in bars, then I recommend that you give speed dating a go.
Speed dating helped give me a good start when I wasn’t getting the best results in bars and clubs early on.
Back when I didn’t have many friends to go out approaching women with, I used speed dating as an easy way to meet women, build up my confidence and experience with women and get some sex.
Initially, I wasn’t a very confident guy and didn’t know how to attract women, so I was only able to get 1 or 2 women to say “Yes” to seeing me again (at the end of a speed dating event, participants submit a list to the organizers of who they would like to provide their contact information to, with a “Yes” or “No” mark next to their name).
By getting the chance to review a profile and have a conversation before you meet the guy, you can pick out the creeps from the good guys (or at least the OK ones) and give you a much better chance at a satisfying date.
But on the other hand, Tinder exposes you to a whole lot of creeps in one concentrated place.
While it might come off as snobby or elitist, this app claims that its members include CEOs, entrepreneurs, investors, millionaires, beauty queens, fitness models, Hollywood celebrities, pro athletes, doctors, and lawyers.
If you’re looking to date someone in those lines of work, this might be the app for you.
You have three options: Yes, Yes (but we need to talk first), or No Thanks.
If you indicate yes, you’ll need to indicate whether you are sober, of if you have had a few drinks.
As I built more confidence and improved my ability to attract women during a conversation, I got to a point where at least 5 out 10 of the women would tick on their forms to be able to meet me again and would then follow up with a few of them to have some casual sex.
Not all of the women are extremely beautiful at speed dating, but there are usually at least a few that are hot, cute or pretty enough to have sex with.
If you eventually decide to give up and unmatch him, he might even seek you out on Facebook or some other dating website in order to specifically tell you that he thought you guys had great chemistry.