Maybe he attends a bible class, midweek service, home group, or even a mens Bible Study. Putting this into a spiritual context, Christian women should yearn for a man who is frequently exercising his spiritual muscles.You could be engaged and SO close to the wedding day-- HOW do you abstain?!?
I encourage all women to seek after a guy who has a strong prayer life with the one who created him.
A man worth pursuing is a man who seeks after God on a daily basis.
It’s common to see a camera mounted in the corner or the ominous black half-spheres embedded in the ceiling.
Whether or not the cameras are on and recording, they are designed to make the general public a little more careful, knowing someone may be watching.
Verse 12: “She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.” Verse 23: “Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land.” It seems odd that right in the middle of this passage about the woman who fears the Lord, there’s a verse about the husband.
But it makes a point about the woman’s commitment to her husband.
Regardless of what his spiritual workouts looks like, any woman who is seeking a Godly man should find someone who is constantly refining his relationship with Christ. Napoleon Bonaparte once said, And while I understand that not every man is destined to be a world-renown leader, I do believe that each individual man in this world has a leadership role to fulfill within a marriage.
A woman after God should always seek a man who can collect his temper, hold his anger, and constantly seek to stay calm a midst trials and tribulations. Whether this role be filled by helping make big decisions, managing finances or even leading the family spiritually, every man is called to be a leader. If you don’t seek a man you can trust, you’ll probably end up making him as bitter as you’ll make yourself. If you can’t find a man you can trust, you should probably take some time away from pursuing.
But, of course, security cameras still often catch people doing all sorts of illegal things.
These cameras reveal something we know already: People’s character is revealed by what they do when they no one’s looking. Thomas Macaulay (1800-1859) once wrote, “The measure of man’s real character is what he would do if he knew he would never be found out.” If you are a single woman and are looking for a godly man to date and possibly marry, what should you look for? If you are a man who desires to faithfully follow God, what aspects of your character should you work to develop?
No matter his cultural background, his level of education or his depth of experiences—if he follows Jesus Christ first, you will recognize it. This may include his father or grandfather, a mentor at school or work or even his buddies.