As far as I’m concerned, actions need to be weighed against your breakup and relationship history and not simply based on some grand universal constant of grief.
Don’t forget that have a far better understanding of the person in question than any self-proclaimed relationship expert!
While contact of any kind when initiated by the dumper is usually good news (but not necessarily regarding reconciliation), my opinion is that the sheer volume of contact is less important than it’s quality.
You have to stay away from him and start your new life without him by your side.
Now, I know what you are thinking: “how do I make my ex miss me?
This time you can make things better and move forward in a healthy, positive relationship.
The truth of the matter is that there is no magic fix to repair a broken relationship.
This means that if you’re currently shooting e-mails back and forth, they may ask you to switch to an online chat, or if you’re texting, they’ll ask if they can call.
If you are interested in the possibility of reconciliation and the offer to escalate to a more personal platform emerges, make sure you keep contact sparse, light-hearted and concise, at least for the time being.
It’s simply a matter of knowing what to do and when.
If you take the correct actions at the correct time you can find yourself back together quicker than you imagined.
No matter what caused the breakup or how bad it was, there are ways to get your ex-girlfriend back.